This is a story about dating at midlife. The names have been changed to protect the innocent.
I was on a second date with someone almost a decade younger, whose mom had her at 20. On our first date I joked that if things didn’t work out with us, I could easily date her mom.
Suddenly I’m wondering how I made it past the first date.
Anyway one fine summer day, her kids were with their dad, which meant she and I could spend some quality time alone time at her place.
Needless to say, we were still pretty new to each other, so we got down to business quickly. I’ll spare you the details (or open an OnlyFans later, I don’t know which), but suffice it to say we were getting pretty hot and heavy in her bedroom.
Things were cooking along quite nicely for a while. But for some reason, her phone kept ringing. I ignored it, deciding it was her problem, and kept my mind focused on the task at hand.
Now reader, I know what you’re saying. “Rascal, with all your years of dating experience, how could you possibly ignore a serious warning sign like that?”
To which I would reply yes, I know. But she was divorced for several years. Both she and her ex-husband had long ago moved on to other people. It was probably one of her kids or some random person. It wasn’t a jealousy situation, at all, so I ignored it.
Finally, the ringing stopped. And then the nightmare began.
Knock Knock
Suddenly, there was a loud knock on the bedroom door. I whispered my partner’s name loudly and asked if the door was locked.
“No, we’re alone!” she claimed. “Well clearly not!” I replied.
That was when I heard a somewhat older yet strangely familiar female voice. “Jenny! Are you in there?”
“Oh shit, it’s my mom!”
“What’s she doing here?”
“I don’t know! No, wait. I told her we’d be switching cars later today and I think she meant here!”
Whoever it was was insistent. “JENNY!”
By the grace of God, her mom didn’t turn the knob. If she had, who knows how many years of therapy it would have taken to purge the image behind the door from her mind.
“Jenny! Are you taking my car or not?”
Luckily, by this point I was already almost dressed. Throughout my life, I’d narrowly avoided numerous parents, husbands, boyfriends, and one girlfriend. I’d also been walked in on by one teen, whose mom acted like it was no big deal at all (we broke up a few days later).
Anyway, I was not about to get done in by someone’s mom.
“Wait, how did she get in here?”
“She has keys to my apartment. Hang on. Just a second Mom! I’ll be right out!”
“No! Tell her to wait.”
“No. Hurry up and get dressed.”
“I can hide under the covers while you stall for time.”
“What?”
“Just go outside and talk to her.”
“Oh ok, good idea.”
“Wait.”
“What?”
“I’m fifty fucking one years old! This should NOT be happening to me anymore!”
“I’m sorry!”
Epilogue
I waited in the bedroom for a few minutes before coming out. When I did, I found no one in the apartment, but the front door open to the parking lot. Gingerly, and with my head held high, I walked outside.
My date’s mom was sitting in my date’s car with the window down, and the two were talking. I approached them.
“Hi, Mrs Smith. My name is Rascal.”
“How do you do and look, I’m so sor—“
“It’s fine. Nothing happened.”
“Excuse me?”
“I was just, well, helping Jenny here study for her English test next week, and we simply lost track of time.”
“Ha! I think you mean Biology test!” Mom and date both roared with laughter.
“I’m Loretta.”
“Hi Loretta. Your daughter’s lovely, and I can see the apple doesn’t fall far from the tree.”
“Hey! That’s my mom!”
“So?”
“She’s married!”
“Not like that’s stopped him before, I bet.”
“I’m sorry, Loretta, have we dated?”
“RASCAL! Mom, see? I told you!”
Anyway, after Jenny finished texting her brothers and nearly killing both of them with the ensuing laughter, we all went out for lunch. We’re all still friends to this day.